Email is your best bet then!
I check it on daily basis and I have notifications on that~!
Plus I tend to type a lot on topics and tumblr is shitty and I barely use it anymore it keeps being shit to me
I really hate losing online friends as well.
I managed to find two back finally you and a friend from Russia and honestly you guys are the most important ones and I keep falling out of contact and it really is upsetting!
My email is: inmates@abv.bg
it is manhunt inspired hahaha